Friday, December 4, 2009

Little Old Father Christmas

An Ornament Filled With Memories:



Worn with years of love, this little man has had a place of honor on our family's Christmas trees as long as I can remember.

I was an Air Force brat, so there were a couple years that we were without my Dad on Christmas. My Nani opened her arm and her home to us ( Mom and  kids) and provided a stable and loving home while Dad was away. 

I remember one Christmas in particular when I was 8 years old. It was during the Cuban Missle Crisis and my Dad was stationed in a remote base in Japan, so we could not go with him. 

I vividly remember trimming  the Christmas tree that year.  Nani gently unwrapped Christmas balls and little glass houses and a little Santa Claus that was dressed like Father Christmas with her rough, hard-worked hands. We all hung the ornaments on the tree- except for a few precious ornaments- Nani hung those herself. This little Santa was one of those treasures.  He hung high up near the top of the tree, centered in the front like a place of honor. My mother had watched Nani do this since she was a little girl.





That year my Dad sent us a Christmas package from Japan. I got a yellow kimono jacket. Each of us got something special from Dad.  Eventhough it was very hard on my Mother, I never felt the strain.  She had wonderful support from her loving Mother. 

One of my very favorite Christmas carols is "I'll Be Home For Christmas", it always reminds me of my Dad.

The little Santa eventually got passed down to my Mom, and she also gave St. Nick the place of honor on the tree, up hight- up front. I remember, as a teenager, loving to trim the tree and watching my Mom unwrap Santa, like her Mother. She carefully hung him on our tree, just like her beloved Mother before her.




Now I have the little Santa. So old and worn and loved!

Just like the two generations of wonderful and loving women before me, I too unwrap the Santa ever so carefully. But when I do, out of the paper flutters memories of Christmases long past. I hang him up high and up front in the place of honor on our tree. My children have seen me do this for years and years. I tell them about the memories the little Santa brings back to me. But his reppertoire has expanded. He now has over 80 years of things remembered and memories to tell. It expands over 4 generations and scores of people!




Nani and Dad have gone to heaven. The little Santa reminds me of them. It is a tangible and visual link to the past. I remember Nani's kind generousity, constant stability and unconditional love. And as for Daddy ( that's what I call him), Santa reminds me of a time when he was very, very far away but still very near to my heart!




Thank you Beverly for hosting Pink Saturday, and asking us to write about a "pink childhood memory".
This was a gift to me- remember family I love so dearly!
Go see all the other pinkies at How Sweet The Sound.

19 comments:

  1. Hi Yvonne,
    Thanks so much for stopping by today!!
    Your precious Santa is a treasure filled with so many memories, your story brings a tear of joy to my eye and I am sure that it makes you feel like a little girl again each time you gaze upon him! These memories are what make the holidays so special...you are very fortunate to have such a charming keepsake of the history of your family!!
    Happy Pink Saturday and crank up the holiday music and enjoy decorating with those remaining boxes!! Hugs xOxO Nerina :)

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  2. Hi, Yvonne,
    I see you have started following my blog, and I appreciate it. I came here, and was delighted with the Santa...and the story...Sadly, our precious, over-the-years ornaments got lost in one of our many moves. Now, when we move, I carry the precious ones with me..(the newer ones, that is).
    Jessica

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  3. Lovely story of love and memories...I think I have the same Santa ornament but mine was found at a yard sale 25 years ago...but he is one of my favorites.

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  4. Yvonne, what a lovely memory. Thank you for sharing it with us. I was a Marine brat and had years where my Dad was not home for Christmas...Mom worked really hard to make it special for us without him but his presence was missed always. My Dad has gone to heaven but I know he watches after me still.

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  5. Yvonne, thank you for visiting my blog today and leaving your very kind comments! I truly appreciate it!

    Your post today is just lovely! What wonderful memories you've shared with us. I can't imagine what it must have been like not having your Dad with you at Christmas, but how wonderful it must have been to spend it with such a loving Grandmother.

    Your beautiful Santa ornament has been around a long time and I'm sure with your care, he'll be around for your children and their children.

    Your blog is just lovely and I've enjoyed my time here . . . I'll be back to visit often.

    Happy Pink Saturday!

    Blessings,
    Teresa

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  6. Ok, now I am sitting here crying over this memory of yours. How beautiful. Christmas is always hard cause I miss not having my mom here especially at this time of the year. I wish that I had an ornament to remember her by. My dad's second wife got rid of them all without telling anyone. He is a very jolly looking fella for being 80 though!

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  7. How wonderful that you've kept these beautiful treasured ornaments from your childhood... Thanks for sharing your memories.

    I don't have any ornaments from my childhood, but I have many special ornaments that I received from my mom that I will treasure forever...

    Sherri:)

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  8. What a precious story! This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing it with us. That's a precious Santa, too.

    Happy PS to you!

    XO,

    Sheila :-)

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  9. Yvonne,
    Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful memory with us. I love how something so small can be such a huge treasure! Brings tears to my eyes... Dee Dee

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  10. Touching memories of Christmas past. Cherish the Santa ornament.
    Joyce

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  11. What a precious things memories are to cherish forever. It is so special how ornaments can hold those memories for us to remember each year.

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  12. What a beautiful memory and thank you so much for sharing it!

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  13. Oh my goodness...thank you so much for sharing this precious story. What an honor to be the proud owner of such a treasure. It is just so beautiful!
    I also loved what you did for the cloche party, below. How delicate and beautiful.
    I too, have a yellow, white, and blue room. It's my guestroom/studio. Such happy colors together. : )
    M.L.

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  14. I do believe it is the same Santa that was in my cloche. Mine has a little more paint, but he lost his ability to hang on the tree long ago. I don't suppose you want to guess how old I was the year of the Cuban Missile Crisis:)

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  15. Hi Yvonne

    Thanks so much for stopping by and for your wonderful comments. Isn't it fun think about our Nanny - Nanni's? What warm memories! Your ornament is so darling, I love much loved look.

    Enjoy your memories old and new!
    Leann

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  16. Hi Yvonne, Thank you for stopping by my blog - it's lovely to meet you. Aren't these memories precious - just think, we can now see these events through adult eyes watching through our childhood mind. I find it pretty amazing.

    Have a lovely week.

    ciao for now,
    Elena :)

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  17. Holiday memories are a most precious gift. Your ornaments are beautiful.

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  18. Yvonne...I just love your Father Christmas ornament and your story. I was a Navy brat and do remember times when my Daddy was deployed during the holidays. Extended family sure can take up the slack when a parent has to be away. Your memories are precious! May they warm you every Christmas!

    Blessings!
    Gail

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  19. What a beautiful story. Keep those lovely memories in your heart. How blessed are you to have an ornament that invokes so many memories.
    - The Tablescaper

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